No matter how insanely talented you believe that you are when it comes to flirting, everyone needs to recognize when they are engaging in hopeless flirting. While there are plenty of people who will respond to your flirting with a hard to get come back, there is a difference between the game of chase and hopeless flirting. For instance, when a woman rolls her eyes and looks past you, there is only hopeless flirting ahead of you. When a guy turns away from you in preference for the company of his buddies, you are entering the land of hopeless flirting.
So many people are willing to make fools of themselves just trying to land a date for later, and it doesn’t have to work that way. Two interested parties can easily communicate their desires for a little bit of flirting, a little bit of engaging, and then a simple invitation to be the next date. However, men and women both engage in hopeless flirting while the night wears on, refusing to take the hint, and refusing to collect their dignity. Flirting is not a game of “press it upon her and she might respond” but a game of subtle and intricate comments and gestures. If it isn’t working, rather than engage in hopeless flirting, try to move on. It is much more dignified. Hopeless flirting is for those who aren’t able to read body language and the signs of their potential date that their attempts are in vain.
